acceptance is a big step a step towards moving forward, life is strange we see things the way we want them to be,not for the way they are. Bad things do happen in this world irrespective of the way you are,we often say “WE ARE GOOD SO WHY WOULD ANYTHING BAD HAPPEN TO US”,but things never happen the way we want them to be ,no matter how painful the things are we need to open our eyes and ask ourself a question IS IT ALL WORTH IT??
we keep on waiting for things to happen, people to come by in our ,love some1 unconditionally , we do everything in our hand and sometimes even beyond for them but thats not it, when we need them we can only look at our empty hands and vacant place by our side, seeing that conditions being reverse you would have never left their side and that is the thing that makes us sad but that was their choice. The worst thing is we end up forgiving them when they do come back if by any chance they do, my dear friends this is pathetic we cant let people rule our life we need to take control of our lives and accept that some people are the way they are.
some times we stress about people ,wrong kind of people waiting for them to return, if they value u they will prove it to u ,u dont need to beg them if u do beg u r lowering ur own self. Sometimes even it is hard u have to accept that people are gone and u can do nothing to make them return. maybe some1 is out there waiting for u, waiting to appreciate u, accept u for who u r ,no complains no demands. But for that u have to accept it,look where u r standing right now,look towards ur future and see is that what u want ur future to be ,standing exactly at the place shedding ur precious tears for the same person ,if he doesnt value u now ,would he value u tomorrow ?? the hard truth is people never change, u cant let same people hurt u if u do then its ur fault u gave them the second chance for what to hurt u???